Man's best friend ...

Sadly, just recently, my brother's much loved dog 'Adelaide' died. He lives alone and works alone and Adelaide was his 'pal'. She was adored by all the family, there was just something special about her. Casper, his cat, is also very sad, they loved one another and shared a basket. My brother has had to put a cushion in the basket for him to cuddle up to at night.

He has now decided that he would like another dog and apparently he is looking for an Irish Terrier. I have searched in vain on google. I think my searching prowess is pretty lacking. He is looking to find one in the South East. If there is anyone out there who is reading this and knows of any breeders in this part of the country then could you let me know. I long to see him with a dog again. He lives in a very rural part of East Sussex and has always had a dog. He said that he went for a walk the other day and turned back because there didn't seem any point without 'Adelaide.'

Quote of the week ...

From the first ever episode of Coronation Street

Ena Sharples " hear you're from Esmerelda street then - mmmmm very bay window round there "

Two feet of snow here...

The reason I write ...

When I started this blog it was as a result of having spent time in a women's refuge and I wanted to tell my story to help other people in abusive situations. Since then I have blogged about the aftermath of my experience, the repossession of my flat, my struggles financially, my depression and my coming out from under it all bit by bit. My painting, my beautiful grandson, the support from my friends and family. The pleasure and humour that I get from the world around me and all the little bits and pieces that go to make up an ordinary day in my life. For those popping in for the first time, especially those who have experienced or are experiencing domestic violence, please read back to the beginning of this blog. It might help you to see that there is a life after violence. Speak out, don't suffer in silence, get help today, you can escape!

Press on my 'Refuge' link and find out how. They are there to help you and they will. They are amazing women who will be with you every step of the way. Get help today!